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What Exactly Are We Looking For?

by IPowerIdeas June 25, 2019

I really enjoy reading and relating to the stories and advice provided by Patrick Lencioni (and The Table Group). That is illustrated in his article which resonated with me and reinforces his ideology of an ideal employee, one that is Humble, Hungry, and Smart (from his book “The Ideal Team Player”).

 

I included some highlights from the article as “I Power Seeds” and my personal experience is that these ideals apply to employees no matter the industry or business model. I have utilized them as cornerstones of my interview process and hire the best employees – get the right people in the right spots and you will consistently experience high-performing employees and incredible results.

 

The article is written and based around the NFL and how teams evaluate and pick the best players for their teams – ones driven for success and to win.

 

 

To help, I added “(employee)” after the word “player” to help visualize these thoughts as they apply to a business environment.

 

 

Enjoy!


 

 

Of course, beyond the physical evaluations that teams do to assess potential talent, GMs and coaches also conduct interviews and administer psychological tests. But the first big question that they need to answer is, “what exactly are we looking for?” I suggest asking three questions that will indicate whether the young men they’re evaluating possess the three required virtues of an ideal team player. These are questions that, if they had been applied to past draftees, could have helped teams avoid a great deal of pain, criticism, and unnecessary expenditures, and identify players who were much better than their measurables would have suggested.

 

 

First, is he HUMBLE? Humility is a tricky word, because most people misunderstand its meaning. It is not a lack of confidence.

 

 

A humble player (employee) will be one who knows what his strengths are, and is willing to acknowledge them even if he doesn’t feel the need to do so often. He’ll also know his weaknesses, and his needs for improvement, and spend more time focused on those. Players (employees) who lack confidence, who are overly deferential and afraid to acknowledge their skills, are not humble.

 
 

“C.S. Lewis explained this well when he said, “humility is not thinking less of yourself, but rather thinking about yourself less.”

 

Having said all this, what teams need to avoid most of all are players (employees) who are self-promoters, always seeking attention and affirmation. They will almost always regret taking an ego-driven player (employee), regardless of his level of talent. Take, Joe Montana over Joe Namath. Okay, I’m old. How about Larry Fitzgerald over Dez Bryant, or Nick Foles over Johnny Manziel?

 

 

Second, is he HUNGRY? This is as simple as it is critical. The fact is, some players (employees) get drafted and decide they’ve arrived. All their hard work has finally paid off. Other players (employees), the hungry ones, feel more pressure than ever to prove themselves. They want to get better, and their motivation is about playing the game rather than living the life.

 

I’ve found that hunger is the hardest of the three virtues to teach. It seems that it is instilled in most people when they are quite young, often as a result of parenting, or influences from teachers or coaches. The telling sign of a hungry player (employee) is that he is never quite satisfied, and doesn’t have to be reminded to do more.

 

 

Think about Jerry Rice and Tom Brady. Anyone who tells you that they are naturals is mistaken. No different than the world’s best musicians, doctors or teachers, they simply get more out of what they have because they outwork everyone else. Period.

 

 

Is he SMART? I’m not referring to intellectual capacity here, and I’m certainly not suggesting that teams rely on the Wonderlic test, which is something like an SAT for pro football players (employees). In the context of a team, being smart is having common sense in the way you deal with people.

 

 

A smart player (employee) knows how his words and actions affect his teammates. Whether he is in the huddle, the locker room, or in front of a reporter, he understands the ramifications of his behavior and is intentional about how he influences the people around him.

 

 

Players (employees) who aren’t smart, even if their intentions are good, often create problems that their coaches and team executives have to clean up. They create off-the-field distractions, sometimes on the sidelines, that diminish their on-field contributions.

 

 

So how does a well-intentioned coach or executive go about discerning which players (employees) are humble, hungry and smart? Of course, interviews are important. Unfortunately, agents make this a little harder than it once was by hiring consultants to prep their athletes to behave diplomatically. Still, looking for the right answers to targeted questions is telling.

 

 

For instance, ask a player (employee) about his accomplishments and look for answers that include the word “we” more than “I.” Ask him what his coaches and teammates would say about his work ethic, and he’ll be more likely to give you an honest answer, afraid that you might actually ask those coaches and teammates for their opinion. Ask him about the toughest teammates (or cross-functional departments within a company they worked for) he had to deal with and how he managed that situation. When you ask for specifics, you’ll know the difference between generic, rehearsed answers and genuine, detailed ones.

 

 

Beyond the interview itself, watch the players (employees) when they aren’t being watched. How do they behave while they’re waiting to run, jump or lift? How do they interact with others? Heck, watch them when they check into the hotel and see how they treat the person at the front desk of the hotel, or anyone else they come into contact with (such as how they greet the receptionist/greeter, answer others’ questions, etc).

 

 

Additional Resources

 

 

The Table Group
An ideal team player embodies three virtues: humility, hunger and people smarts. The power this combination yields drastically accelerates and improves the process of building high-performing teams.

 

 

The site contains FREE resources and tools – check it out!

 

Buy the book – The Ideal Team Player on Amazon

 

Book Overview on: I Power Ideas

 

 

Here are a couple good videos I found:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8d0wta9pXT0Humble

 

 

Hungry, Smart – An Ideal Team Player

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The Five Dysfunctions of a Team

by IPowerIdeas March 3, 2019

In The Five Dysfunctions of a Team by Patrick Lencioni once again offers a leadership fable that is as enthralling and instructive as his first two best-selling books, The Five Temptations of a CEO and The Four Obsessions of an Extraordinary Executive. This time, he turns his keen intellect and storytelling power to the fascinating, complex world of teams.

 

Kathryn Petersen, Decision Tech’s CEO, faces the ultimate leadership crisis: Uniting a team in such disarray that it threatens to bring down the entire company. Will she succeed? Will she be fired? Will the company fail? Lencioni’s utterly gripping tale serves as a timeless reminder that leadership requires as much courage as it does insight.

 

Throughout the story, Lencioni reveals the five dysfunctions which go to the very heart of why teams even the best ones-often struggle. He outlines a powerful model and actionable steps that can be used to overcome these common hurdles and build a cohesive, effective team. Just as with his other books, Lencioni has written a compelling fable with a powerful yet deceptively simple message for all those who strive to be exceptional team leaders.

 

Overview and purchase from Amazon

 

The 5 Dysfunctions of a Team:

Dysfunction #1: Absence of Trust
The fear of being vulnerable with team members prevents the building of trust within the team.

 

Dysfunction #2: Fear of Conflict
The desire to preserve artificial harmony stifles the occurrence of productive ideological conflict.

 

Dysfunction #3: Lack of Commitment
The lack of clarity or buy-in prevents team members from making decisions they will stick to.

 

Dysfunction #4: Avoidance of Accountability
The need to avoid interpersonal discomfort prevents team members from holding one another accountable.

 

Dysfunction #5: Inattention to Results
The pursuit of individual goals and personal status erodes the focus on collective success.

The 5 Dysfunctions of a Team

 

There are my thoughts. They are nuggets or seeds to get you started.

 

This was one of the books that sparked the flame to really explore my leadership style as well as look at things from a deeper and different set of lenses.

 

Results should be primary goal. This goes without saying as you ready the book – as you go up the model, that is the primary goal.

 

We need to work as a team
•  Less egos – all have them but win as a team in most important.

Here is an example:
Basketball team can be full of people with large egos, but if only one of them is a good player, they may want the spotlight and show off their 55 points, but if the team loses, what is the goal? What was achieved?

Consider a football team. On a football field, a scoreboard focuses on everyone’s efforts on one thing: winning.

 

It doesn’t display defensive statistics or offensive statistics or even individual player statistics. It provides unambiguous information about how the team is doing, and how much time the members have left if they want to improve the final outcome. That leaves little room for individual interpretation.

 

Imagine the quarterback of a team that is losing by 14 points with 3 minutes to go in the game saying to the coach, “Well, I feel pretty good about thins. I mean, my performance was not bad, and my stats look good.”

 

The coach would be furious. He wants that quarterback and everyone else on the team to be focused on one thing: winning (or results).

 

Meetings – compare to movies. What is the single ingredient that makes movies interesting and keeps us motivated to watch them – conflict. This is what keeps us engaged and interested.

 

Conflict
“Politics is when people choose their words and actions based on how they want others to react rather than based on what they really think.”
Patrick Lencioni

 

These are other key words and/or thoughts:
•  Positive Debate
•  Positive Confrontation
•  Communication
•  Lack of debate
•  Discomfort in challenging each other
•  Willingness to participate
•  Trust
•  All need to be engaged
•  High standards of behavior and performance
•  You have brought up great points and put on Park List (create page)
•  Look for opportunities for people to get out of their chairs.

 

This is by far one of the best books I have read and highly recommend it. It provided me a great foundation to enhance my journey as well as created many new directions to take my thinking and learning. Read the book!

 

 

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Patrick Lencioni – 5 Dysfunctions of a Team

by IPowerIdeas February 17, 2019

Patrick Lencioni has provided us some amazing books.  When I read the 5 Dysfunctions of a Team I was hooked.  He has a writing style that is easy to understand and more importantly one where we can easily relate to.

 

The book is written for a management team so I had to tweak it to use it for my department of non-managers.  It took some trial and error, but over a course of a couple months I saw some real progress.

 

Dysfunction #1: Absence of Trust
The fear of being vulnerable with team members prevents the building of trust within the team.

 

Dysfunction #2: Fear of Conflict
The desire to preserve artificial harmony stifles the occurrence of productive ideological conflict.

 

Dysfunction #3: Lack of Commitment
The lack of clarity or buy-in prevents team members from making decisions they will stick to.

 

Dysfunction #4: Avoidance of Accountability
The need to avoid interpersonal discomfort prevents team members from holding one another accountable.

 

Dysfunction #5: Inattention to Results
The pursuit of individual goals and personal status erodes the focus on collective success.

 

Please check out my book summary for more details and insights.  Book Summary

 

I highly encourage everyone to read the book.

 

 

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How to Create a Winning Company Culture

by IPowerIdeas May 17, 2018

Culture – what does it mean to you?  When you hear the word “culture” does it seem over-used and just a buzz word with little to no weight?  Or does culture mean everything to you, your department, your company?  Ask yourself these questions and reflect and analyze your responses to see how important it is to you.

 

Ironically as I was writing this post, I took an online management test and the results provided me a couple great ideas on ways to increase a more positive culture in my own work environment. It is these seeds that we learn, that we plant and cultivate, which become strong traits and business practices to help make us all become better managers.

 

Take a moment and read the article below highlighting five ways to create a positive and engaging culture and reflect on the ideas presented and if they apply or can be implemented in your work environment. I also added a couple small ideas or thoughts (in italics).

 

I hope you are able to come away with new ideas or seeds to cultivate positive change and progress within your own business culture.  It can take some hard work, but with time you will experience success and results.

 

 

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How to Create a Winning Company Culture
By Kat Boogaard

 

When you think about building a team or company where employees are engaged, motivated, and excited to stick around for a while, there’s likely one word you’ve heard again and again: culture. And for good reason—the vibe of your office and the people who come to work there every day has a huge impact on your happiness, and your overall success.


But, fostering a vibrant and cohesive culture doesn’t happen overnight—and it certainly doesn’t happen by accident. So, let’s dive into everything you need to know about company culture—including how you can cultivate a positive one within your own organization.

 

Why Is Culture Such a Big Deal?
The best way to think about culture? It’s the personality of your company. Culture culminates your organization’s mission, values, and beliefs to form the overarching spirit of your workplace as a whole. And, much like with people, personality matters.

 

Culture has proven to directly correlate with a number of factors that are important to both employers and employees alike.

 

Take employee retention, for example. A Columbia University study discovered that the likelihood of turnover at companies with rich cultures is a mere 13.9 percent. At companies with poor company cultures? It’s a whopping 48.4 percent.

 

Job satisfaction is another key component. Understandably, employees who believe their workplaces have a positive culture are much happier in their careers—which is beneficial for everyone when you consider that happy employees are 12 percent more productive than the average worker.

 

How to Foster a Winning Company Culture
And while the perks of a positive culture are numerous, that doesn’t mean that you can close your eyes, click your heels together, and have it all magically fall into place.

 

Like anything else, cultivating a great culture requires conscious thought, planning, and effort. Here’s what you can do to establish a winning work environment within your own company.

 

Step 1
Define Your Culture

It all starts with outlining the exact culture you want to foster. Do you want a laid back and casual work environment? A fast-paced and high-energy office where there’s a lot of drive to innovate and excel? An emphasis on professional development? Or, a focus on giving back to the community?

 

Figure out the values and elements that are important to your company. And, all employees should be invited to participate in this conversation so they can provide insights into the way your workplace is perceived. Plus, they deserve a say in how this takes shape, since they’re the ones who work within your culture day in and day out.

 

But once you have the culture that you want defined, you don’t get to sit back and watch as it takes effect. You need to make the necessary changes to actually live your culture, and lead by example.

 

For example, perhaps you’ve identified a supportive management style as a key pillar of your desired culture. From regularly scheduled one-on-ones to plenty of formal and informal feedback sessions, how will you instill that concept into daily life for your entire team?

 

Defining your culture is really only the first step—you need to be prepared to act on the values that you’ve outlined.

 

I Power Seed
Lead by example and have a clear and defined culture. Meet with your team routinely to keep reinforcing it. We know change can be difficult for some and the consistent and positive reinforcement of the changes will help ensure successful results.

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Step 2
Reward and Recognize

There’s nothing like a pat on the back for a job well done—and that holds true for employees of all ranks and departments. Showing genuine appreciation for the hard work that team members put in makes them feel valued and respected, critical for employee satisfaction.

 

While formal rewards and recognition programs are great, this should be a value that’s pervasive throughout your entire office, to create a culture of appreciation and encourage team work.

 

Even if it’s a compliment passed from one employee to another or a piece of praise from a superior, remember that recognition doesn’t need to be formal to be effective. The more these sorts of commendations become commonplace, the more positive and supportive your whole environment will be.

 

I Power Seed
When I receive an email giving praise about one of my employees, I send it with note from me to the entire department. I see it as when one of us succeeds, we all succeed. And when one of us gets a compliment, we are all part in some way to their individual success and we should all share. I have received many compliments in doing this.

I also like to give little rewards as it adds a little fun in our everyday busy work days. For example, I send out a weekly dashboard regarding our tech tickets and for fun at the very bottom of it, I put in small font and in an obscure way a message that said if they are ‘reading this, let me know and come get your prize’. I wanted to see if anyone was really reading the dashboard data. And sure enough, someone did and they got a nice bag full of goodies.

Step 3
Get Social

Everybody wants to be productive in the office. But, not too many people actively seek out a culture that’s all work and absolutely no play.

 

When you spend so much time with your colleagues during any given week, it’s natural (and even encouraged!) to want to get to know them on a personal level outside of the office.

 

This is why some of the liveliest and most vibrant cultures encourage plenty of social interaction amongst their employees—whether it’s kickball leagues, holiday parties, game nights, or even a company-sponsored retreat or getaway.

 

If you aren’t in a position to institute a company-wide event or tradition, get an impromptu happy hour on the calendar with some of your team members. Any sort of fun outing with your co-workers will strengthen your bonds and lead to a positive, close-knit culture.

 

I Power Seed
This was actually on the online management test I took recently and it asked if you knew a name of an immediate family member for each of your employees. Everyone one of us wants some level of privacy in our work place, but I also know that we like to feel our managers or leaders care about us above and beyond just getting work done. Having an after work social or casual lunch goes a long way. These social events, and they can be short and informal, provide a great opportunity to lower guards and learn a little about each other. They do take work as not everyone wants to participate. I tend to do them in the middle of the day such as a lunch or ice cream social. I have even had a catered lunch and watched a movie. They honestly appreciate it.

 

Step 4
Promote Self-Care

Some of the most beloved company cultures have at least one thing in common: they all make sure that employees are able to take care of themselves—both inside the office and out.

 

In today’s constantly-connected society, there’s much less separation between our work and personal lives. And organizations with thriving cultures empower their employees to bring their whole, authentic selves to work, while doing their best to maintain their health and happiness.

 

Whether it’s a reimbursed gym membership, flexible work schedules, or even the option to work remotely occasionally, companies who place their focus on results and encourage self-care tend to have happier employees who are motivated to stick around.

 

I Power Seed
Self-care can yield incredible results. Employees have told me time and time again how much they appreciate how flexible I am with occasional requests – letting them come in late, leave early, longer lunch, work from home, etc. – they express appreciation and gratitude and when I need them to stay late or come in early, they don’t even hesitate. They also tend to put in extra effort in their daily work activities. I have one employee where my management style was not something she was used to in previous jobs and with this culture she is now a rock star.

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Step 5
Emphasize Purpose

Nobody wants to feel like just another cog in a wheel. To establish a winning culture within your own company, you need to be able to help employees look beyond their immediate to-do list and understand the greater purpose they’re serving.

 

Maybe your team members are motivated by knowing how their work contributes to the organization as a whole. Or, maybe your staff finds involvement in various charity and community efforts particularly inspiring.

 

The important thing is to encourage people to step outside themselves and see the forest—instead of just the trees.

 

I Power Seed
This is another really good point. If there is no sense of purpose, the “why am I here”, then they are not engaged and don’t perform the best they can – no skin in the game (my wife hates when I say that). I really emphasize that in my team. Recently I conducted an exercise where I asked my tech team to take a list of organizational goals (these were non-technical goals) and prioritize them. It was interesting for them to see what the “global” purposes of the organization were and how they can be part of it. Having that knowledge and understanding of a global purpose helps them understand the goals and how they can help attain them.

 

One look at the numerous benefits and it becomes obvious that company culture is irrefutably important, but knowing how to establish and foster one within your own company can be daunting.

 

The important thing to remember is that culture isn’t something that just happens . It takes work and active participation—from both employers and employees. When both band together in the interest of living your company’s values, you’re sure to end up with a winning work environment.

 

I hope you enjoyed the article and seeds. Good luck with cultivating the culture you want for your team.

 

Please leave comments or share your thoughts or experiences.

 

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Why Attitude Is More Important Than IQ

by IPowerIdeas May 14, 2018

This is a two-part post.  The first part is linked at the bottom of this post.

 

Click Here for Attitude vs IQ Presentation

 

This is the second part of the post. As I noted in the first post, I presented my staff with the Blob Tree. This laid the foundation on how to better identify our feelings and with that knowledge, we can learn how to communicate and collaborate more effectively and efficiently.

 

The second thing I presented to my staff was I shared a recent study by Stanford that shows that attitude is a better predictor of success than your IQ. Think about that for a moment (Pause and Reflect) – having a better attitude could be a greater driver for success than your IQ. Very powerful thought. Think about all the influential or successful people who have had relatively low IQ’s but amazing attitudes. (I will let you research some examples, there are lots of websites that show successful people who have low IQs but had amazing attitudes).

 

I explained the difference between a Fixed Mindset and a Growth Mindset. I included the PowerPoint with some of my notes in this post to give you a framework of how I presented it.

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Coupled with the Blob Tree and its respective exercise and the study and article below, it helped give my staff a deeper understanding and meaning about recognizing their current feelings, what to do once they are identified, and how to utilize that knowledge for change and growth.

 

Lastly, I used an example of systems thinking where kindergartners were shown the story of Little Red Riding Hood – a story they have heard many times before. But with systems thinking, they looked at an emotions/time graph to look at the emotions by all parties in the story over time. Then they discussed those feelings and what they meant. These small children were able to better recognize numerous feelings and then have the knowledge and tools to find better ways to utilize that knowledge and focus on how to communicate and collaborate better.

 

I encourage you to stop and reflect on this as it is very powerful and the impact on these young children over the course of their lives will set the foundation on continual learning and growth. It is not too late for us to learn from this as well.

 

I hope this was helpful to you and please leave comments and feedback. We can all learn from each other.

 

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Why Attitude Is More Important Than IQ
by Travis Bradberry

 

When it comes to success, it’s easy to think that people blessed with brains are inevitably going to leave the rest of us in the dust. But new research from Stanford University will change your mind (and your attitude).

 

Psychologist Carol Dweck has spent her entire career studying attitude and performance, and her latest study shows that your attitude is a better predictor of your success than your IQ.

 

Dweck found that people’s core attitudes fall into one of two categories: a fixed mindset or a growth mindset.

 

With a fixed mindset, you believe you are who you are and you cannot change. This creates problems when you’re challenged because anything that appears to be more than you can handle is bound to make you feel hopeless and overwhelmed.

 

People with a growth mindset believe that they can improve with effort. They outperform those with a fixed mindset, even when they have a lower IQ, because they embrace challenges, treating them as opportunities to learn something new.

 

Common sense would suggest that having ability, like being smart, inspires confidence. It does, but only while the going is easy. The deciding factor in life is how you handle setbacks and challenges. People with a growth mindset welcome setbacks with open arms.

 

According to Dweck, success in life is all about how you deal with failure. She describes the approach to failure of people with the growth mindset this way,

 

“Failure is information—we label it failure, but it’s more like, ‘This didn’t work, and I’m a problem solver, so I’ll try something else.’”

 

Regardless of which side of the chart you fall on, you can make changes and develop a growth mindset. What follows are some strategies that will fine-tune your mindset and help you make certain it’s as growth oriented as possible.

 

Don’t stay helpless. We all hit moments when we feel helpless. The test is how we react to that feeling. We can either learn from it and move forward or let it drag us down. There are countless successful people who would have never made it if they had succumbed to feelings of helplessness: Walt Disney was fired from the Kansas City Star because he “lacked imagination and had no good ideas,” Oprah Winfrey was fired from her job as a TV anchor in Baltimore for being “too emotionally invested in her stories,” Henry Ford had two failed car companies prior to succeeding with Ford, and Steven Spielberg was rejected by USC’s Cinematic Arts School multiple times. Imagine what would have happened if any of these people had a fixed mindset. They would have succumbed to the rejection and given up hope. People with a growth mindset don’t feel helpless because they know that in order to be successful, you need to be willing to fail hard and then bounce right back.

 

Be passionate. Empowered people pursue their passions relentlessly. There’s always going to be someone who’s more naturally talented than you are, but what you lack in talent, you can make up for in passion. Empowered people’s passion is what drives their unrelenting pursuit of excellence. Warren Buffett recommends finding your truest passions using, what he calls, the 5/25 technique: Write down the 25 things that you care about the most. Then, cross out the bottom 20. The remaining 5 are your true passions. Everything else is merely a distraction.

 

Take action. It’s not that people with a growth mindset are able to overcome their fears because they are braver than the rest of us; it’s just that they know fear and anxiety are paralyzing emotions and that the best way to overcome this paralysis is to take action. People with a growth mindset are empowered, and empowered people know that there’s no such thing as a truly perfect moment to move forward. So why wait for one? Taking action turns all your worry and concern about failure into positive, focused energy.

 

Then go the extra mile (or two). Empowered people give it their all, even on their worst days. They’re always pushing themselves to go the extra mile. One of Bruce Lee’s pupils ran three miles every day with him. One day, they were about to hit the three-mile mark when Bruce said, “Let’s do two more.” His pupil was tired and said, “I’ll die if I run two more.” Bruce’s response? “Then do it.” His pupil became so angry that he finished the full five miles. Exhausted and furious, he confronted Bruce about his comment, and Bruce explained it this way: “Quit and you might as well be dead. If you always put limits on what you can do, physical or anything else, it’ll spread over into the rest of your life. It’ll spread into your work, into your morality, into your entire being. There are no limits. There are plateaus, but you must not stay there; you must go beyond them. If it kills you, it kills you. A man must constantly exceed his level.”

 

If you aren’t getting a little bit better each day, then you’re most likely getting a little worse—and what kind of life is that?

 

Expect results. People with a growth mindset know that they’re going to fail from time to time, but they never let that keep them from expecting results. Expecting results keeps you motivated and feeds the cycle of empowerment. After all, if you don’t think you’re going to succeed, then why bother?

 

Be flexible. Everyone encounters unanticipated adversity. People with an empowered, growth-oriented mindset embrace adversity as a means for improvement, as opposed to something that holds them back. When an unexpected situation challenges an empowered person, they flex until they get results.

 

Don’t complain when things don’t go your way. Complaining is an obvious sign of a fixed mindset. A growth mindset looks for opportunity in everything, so there’s no room for complaints.

 

Bringing It All Together

By keeping track of how you respond to the little things, you can work every day to keep yourself on the right side of the chart above.

 

Do you have a growth mindset?

 

Please share your thoughts and ideas in the comments section. We can learn from each other.

 

Click for Part I – Blob Tree and the “What and Why”

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Blob Tree and the “What and Why”

by IPowerIdeas May 14, 2018

This is a two-part post. The second part is linked at the bottom of this post.

 

The Blob Tree – really? Is this kindergarten time? This is what I thought when my wife showed me the Blob Tree and briefly explained to me what it was. Initially I did not pay much attention to it and thought there was no way I could use this in a staff development meeting of mature and experienced professionals. I thought I would be laughed out of the room. Don’t you agree?

 

However, presenting the Blob Tree was an inspiring tool and it surprisingly was incredibly useful too.

 

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Let me share a little with you on how I successfully used the Blob Tree and give you some ideas (I Power Seeds) and maybe it will echo with your team.

 

My presentation started with setting up the room. I put out cheap pairs of glasses (like from the dollar store) on every table. I did this as having a visual aide and a tangible stimulus to remind them to reflect on what they learned and continue to foster the growth around the meanings of the Blob Tree.

 

The first part of my strategy I have been coaching my staff on the 5 Dysfunctions of a Team (by Patrick Lencioni), focusing on the team itself and how we function and interact as a team. Then the second part of my strategy was to focus and work on the individuals. I took notes and insights from many sources such as The Leadership Challenge, The Truth About Employee Engagement, and The Ideal Team Player, numerous articles, and my own experiences. I then incorporated some of the main points gleamed from these sources and offered a high-level presentation of these ideas and frameworks to my staff as well as accompanied it with a couple of exercises that helped solidify the ideas and meanings.

 

I will be honest, it was not easy (to say the least). But once the barriers were lowered a little and everyone went around the room and shared where they were on the Blob Tree at that moment, it turned out everyone had fun and felt they could share (key concept – to be vulnerable). Of course a couple said things like, “You know which one is me!” or “I don’t talk about my feelings!” But that was ok as others laughed and recognized others’ vulnerability state and they in turn openly expressed how they felt and how the Blob they chose represented them at that moment, which was the goal of the exercise. Progress and results were achieved.

 

Here is a PowerPoint with the general ideas of what I did. Feel free to review it and I hope it sparks ideas for your own presentation with your team.

 

Click Here To Open: Attitude vs IQ

 

Here some of the notable meanings around the Blob Tree. And of course you will discover your own.

 

  • Each picture is a means to a conversation, rather than a problem to be solved or a message to be agreed upon.
  • We each see the world through our own eyes. Allowing others to share their feelings enables group members to understand and appreciate one another.
  • When we are children our feelings say one thing, sometimes more purely than when we are adults. Schools encourage children to understand their feelings and to master them.
  • The tree is a place, a group, or an organization – such as your family, a club, a group of friends, a church, or even yourself.
  • There is a platform and a rope to swing on. What do they symbolize? They might represent safety, leadership, separation, for or wastefulness? It depends upon how you feel as you look at them, and how you feel that day.
  • It is important that we name them Blobs – they are not any color, race, gender, etc. This ensures it includes everyone.
  • The grass – a place where you might go after climbing out of the tree. A place of respite. It can also be a place of opposition to what is going on in the tree. Such as saying, “I want to be on the grass and out of the tree.” This gives us clues as to how people are feeling at that moment in time.

 

The Blob Tree is a useful and fun tool to assist your staff in becoming trusting (being vulnerable) in a fun and light-hearted manner. Sometimes we need tools like this that make us laugh and which brings out the best in us in our quest to strive for higher achievement and better results.

 

Good luck and please leave comments and feedback.

 

Click for Part II – Why Attitude Is More Important Than IQ

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Employees Don’t Quit Their Job; They Quit Their Boss!

by IPowerIdeas May 1, 2018

Do you develop your employees or are you more focused on developing yourself? Do you consider yourself a humble and empathetic leader? Are you energetic or have integrity? Some great questions right?

 

The post below will provide some nuggets or seeds (I Power Seeds) to encourage you to stop and reflect and hopefully provide some knowledge to help you become a better leader.

 

A key element of an effective and successful manager is developing your employees so they grow, thrive, and stay engaged.

 

I really enjoyed this article and why I am posting it. The insights in the article can enhance the what managers and leaders do for their employees. The first part is about developing employees and the second part is directed towards traits and habits exhibited by effective and caring leaders.

 

I am a firm believer in developing employees and the ROI is very clear and apparent and the time and effort put into their overall development as they are happier and their quality and productivity is quite evident. For example, in my current role I spend an average of $1,000 per year per employee on development such as seminars, workshops, conferences, and training and professional development.

 

The other component are the traits and habits the author highlights below, and when you pause and reflect on them and compare them to what you experiences as an employee or as a manager, it will be clear they are accurate and true.

 

I have utilized these traits and habits in staff development meetings where I provide insight and fun exercises to help employees recognize them as well as help increase their skills and knowledge as they grow and develop their management and/or leadership skills. It takes a lot of effort and time from you to develop the topics and then present them to your team. I will be posting some PowerPoint slides as seeds (I Power Seeds) to give you some ideas.

 

Here are a couple other related posts that will provide additional insight into employees development and engagement.

 

The Ideal Team Player (Humble, Hungry, Smart)

Leadership Development – Humility as Leadership

 

“Leadership is not about being in charge. Leadership is about taking care of those in your charge.”

Simon Sinek

 

Time to Say Goodbye

Employees Don’t Quit Their Job; They Quit Their Boss!
Brigette Hyacinth

 

Employees might join companies, but they leave managers. Too many managers view their position as one of entitlement rather than one of responsibility. In days past, managers would focus on developing their employees. Today they are more focused on self-promotion and securing their position. A managers’ job is to facilitate a good working environment for his/her employees. The focus should be to help everyone around you succeed. Managers define culture, and culture under-girds the lasting health, success and sustainability of an organization.

 

The biggest danger of leadership: Arrogance

According to research from the University of Washington Foster School of Business, humble people are more likely to be make the most effective leaders. It turns out, humility offers a competitive advantage.

 

So why has arrogant or narcissistic leaders become the norm:

It has been historically perceived that humility is a sign of weakness and an antithesis to leadership. There is still an expectation that successful leaders are more arrogant than humble. Narcissism is mistaken for self-confidence and toxic leaders seem to be in control of everything. They are able to provide short-term results but the truth is they leave a trail of destruction in their path. Organizations pay heavily for such managers with low engagement, high turnover and reduced productivity. Arrogant leaders have a shelf-life within their organizations. They may “rule the day” but eventually people tire of them and their tactics, which lessens overall commitment from the team. Intimidation and threats of punishment can only work for so long.

 

“The x- factor of great leadership is not personality, it’s humility” – Jim Collins

 

The Power of Humility in the Workplace

Leading with humility means focusing on others and practicing servant leadership. Humble leaders:

 

1.  They put people first.
Their focus is on serving others. They do not get consumed by seeking out more power. Instead, they seek more ways to help others.

 

2.  They admit their mistakes.
All leaders make mistakes. Humble leaders own up to them. They don’t play the blame game when things go wrong. Instead they hold themselves accountable. Vulnerability builds trust.

 

3.  They share information and delegate.
Humble leaders are aware of their strengths and weaknesses. They realize that they cannot do everything. They delegate because the work is more important than their ego.

 

4.  They listen.
They are approachable to employees and this allows them to create an environment of open communication and effective feedback.

 

5.  They do not hesitate to give credit where credit is due.
They appreciate the contributions of others. They are quick to recognize and reward the efforts of team members.

 

6.  They are empathetic to those in their charge.
They genuinely care about employees and employees can feel this sincerity. Empathy allows them to build healthy relationships and bond with team members.

 

7.  They are authentic.
They are the same person in every situation. This makes them trustworthy. Authenticity goes hand in hand with integrity. They are individuals of integrity.

 

“No matter how educated, talented, rich or cool you believe you are, how you treat people tells all. Integrity is everything.”

 

Humility doesn’t mean that leaders can’t make tough decisions. A humble leader should not be mistaken for a weak one. It takes strength, courage, and wisdom to practice humility. I have learned that the best leaders are selfless and more concerned with the well-being of their team than with personal titles or status symbols. Easily offended leaders with inflated egos don’t build strong teams. You cannot be an effective leader if you feel that you are better than your subordinates. No one likes dealing with egomaniacs. Arrogance is a deterrent, it destroys relationships and lowers employee morale whereas genuine humility has a way of winning others over.

 

Good leaders empower. Bad ones micromanage. It is dreadful to work under a manager who is more worried about pushing their weight around than building relationships. The role of any leader within a corporate framework is to build up the team and to encourage growth. If we want employees to feel commitment to the organization, we need to show we respect and value them. This takes humility. For loyalty, there has to be a relationship that develops between employee and employer and this develops over time through trust that gets built and sustained. Once people trust you, they will follow your lead. You won’t need to flaunt your title to get them to do the best possible job.

 

People might tolerate a boring job or long commute, but they are more prone to leave if their boss treats them poorly. Humble leaders get the best from people. They have more influence, they retain top talent, and they earn more respect and loyalty than those who rely upon ego and power. Want to be a good boss? Start by taking a slice or two of humble pie!

 

Please leave comments or feedback.

 

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What’s Your Face?

by IPowerIdeas April 19, 2018

This is a good article and one that does not, on the surface, sound that important. But it is. Let me give you a personal example.

 

When I get into deep thought or something is on my mind, I have a “face” too. It is not that I am upset, angry, or agitated, but when I am in deep thought, my face morphs into “my face”. I remember being in a meeting and someone asked if I was upset and I said “no” but rather I was in deep thought regarding the subject of the meeting.

 

I did some self-analysis and realized that was not the first time I heard this about my face. The next time I was in deep thought, I tried to keep the same face and looked in the mirror and sure enough, I looked agitated. Not good I thought.

 

But the good news is I am now aware of it and can adjust accordingly. For example, when I am in deep thought, I tend not to walk down the halls so people walking by don’t think I am agitated or upset. This awareness has helped tremendously. And of course we all get lazy now and then and just the other day I was walking across the parking lot at work and someone said, “Hey, tough day?” and I said “no” – but then it hit me that I had something deep on my mind and turned and let them know. And then I reminded myself not to be in deep thought and walk at the same time.

 

Here is an I Power Seed for you and try it yourself – the next time you someone calls you out, take some time to self-reflect and become aware of “your face”. Knowledge is power.

 

Good luck and happy face hunting.

 

Please leave comments or offer feedback.

 

What's Your Face
What’s Your Face?
By Patrick Lencioni

 

Years ago, my wife told me that I had a “face,” but I didn’t believe her. What she meant was that I had a particularly unattractive facial expression that I unintentionally displayed when I was feeling frustrated by my inability to be understood by someone. What the face actually displayed was that I was disgusted with the person who didn’t understand me, and that I thought they deserved to be flogged for their stupidity.

 

Since that time, I’ve come to learn, with the help of my colleagues at The Table Group, that I do sometimes have that face. Even though I have a difficult time conjuring up the face on demand (it seems to require an emotional prompt), I am well aware that it evokes an unwanted reaction from those who are unlucky enough to witness it.

 

To that end, I’ve recently come to the conclusion that everyone has a face. It is usually the product of a strong emotion that is difficult for us to articulate, and so it is portrayed in a less-than-accurate way, and often more extreme than we want it to be. For instance, one of my colleagues often feels frustrated that she can’t adequately verbalize her concern for others in the moment, so her face portrays a level of pity that borders on patronizing. This is not what she wants to portray, but it happens nonetheless. It’s her face.

 

Another colleague, when she feels let down by someone, takes on the look of judgmental disappointment. It’s as if she’s thinking, “so that’s the best you can do, huh? How sad.” She doesn’t know that she’s conveying this, but her colleagues—and her husband and children—certainly do.

 

Why is it important for all of us to know what our faces are, and when and why we show them? Because if we don’t, we will find ourselves puzzled by the reactions of our employees and team members who have no choice but to respond to the emotional content of what they see. And their reactions are only going to exacerbate what our faces are already exaggerating, leading to further misunderstanding. If that sounds trivial, understand that this can lead to broken trust and unnecessary division among people who have no real reason to be at odds.

 

The solution to this problem is for every one of us to identify, most likely with the help of our colleagues and loved ones, what our faces are. Once we do this, we need to not only invite those colleagues and loved ones to call us out when we display that face, but to exhort them to do it! We need to beg them to alert us when we are inadvertently expressing an emotion that is unintended, so that we can stop and explain what we are really feeling and allow others to help us address those feelings.

 

My wife inadvertently came up with a fun way of identifying and staying aware of our faces in a team or family environment. It happened the other night when I was a little grumpy and judgmental, and she said, “You’re a little harsh, aren’t you?” And then she laughed and said, “Hey, that should be your rapper name. ‘Li’l Harsh’.” After I got over the initial sting of her accurate nickname for me, I realized that it was a good way of describing my face. So I went to work, announced my new moniker, and helped everyone come up with their respective rapper names. We now have Li’l Sour, Li’l Dismissive, Li’l Annoyed, Li’l Denial, Li’l Disappointed, Li’l Prickly, Li’l Condescending, Li’l Patronizing and Li’l Tense. That might sound silly, but within the day we were using those terms to describe one another in moments of stress, and it brought real clarity, not to mention humor, to situations that could have otherwise been unnecessarily tense.

 

So, what’s your face? And what’s your rapper name?

 

Peace Out.

 

Li’l Harsh, aka…

 

 

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Letting People Go

by IPowerIdeas April 3, 2018

This post ties into a recent post of mine regarding of The Ideal Team Player and what the fable shares with employee engagement as well as employee motivation.

 

I want to share a personal story along similar lines to the story below.

 

I care deeply about my staff and their well-being, not just at work but also outside of work as their personal lives have a significant impact on their work and their attitude while at work (which can be infectious). I want them to be happy at work and happy outside work (as much as possible). I believe my staff would see me as being sympathetic and empathetic.

 

I had a manager that I liked. The CEO suggested I fire him for a specific issue the manager created. It was not heinous nor one that involved other people but an issue that cost the company money. This manager had a young family and needed the job so I warned him and let it go. The CEO trusted me and my judgement and did not overrule my decision (something I have always appreciated about Rich Willis). What I did not do was put aside my caring feelings and look at the bigger picture which was he was not a good fit for the culture and he hired employees to be part of his team that were like him and before I knew it, the culture in his area became worse than I had thought. When I left the company, I saw it more clearly and I should have made the tough call and let him go as soon as I was told of the issue. My entire department/team would have been much better off and progressed in a more positive path if I had trusted my initial instincts (and Rich’s suggestion).

 

To highlight this point, I heard this quote recently, “When there is doubt, there is no doubt.“

 

Please comment and offer your thoughts and similar stories. These examples are an excellent way for us to personally relate and learn from.

 

This is a great story that I really liked as it tied into a thought I was having about how leaders need to “cut bait” sooner than later when they have doubt. Enjoy.

 

The Founder of Panera Bread: ‘I Wish I’d Fired More People’

 

Entrepreneur Media

 

I was the CEO of a public company for more than 26 years — that’s longer than Cal Ripken, Jr., played baseball. And I wasn’t the only one who stuck around Panera for a long time. Many of my colleagues did, too. In one case, a senior executive grew up with me there for more than 20 years. His job eventually outgrew him, and he totally checked out. He knew it, too, but he couldn’t bring himself to tell me. He just kept showing up to work. I pushed him and waited for him to step up. For years. But I didn’t fire him.

 

Looking back, I understand why: I was too obsessed with being a caring leader. What I should have done was let him go sooner, and many others like him.

 

CEOs like me come from a model called servant leadership. The idea is that we’re there trying to serve our teams and focus on their well–being. I thought of my team as a family, and the folks who worked with us as we built the organization were phenomenal. There’s a lot to be said for servant leadership, but there’s also a downside that took me years to recognize. As the complexities and challenges of our business got bigger and bigger, some team members weren’t able to keep up. But instead of confronting them, I’d find ways to cover for them. I was willing to do their work. Time and time again, that hurt the organization.

 

Why did it take me so long to let these people go? Experience comes from banging your head against a wall, and if I’m being honest, I didn’t come fully into my own as a leader until the past 10 years of my career. Now I see my mistake. I didn’t understand that a leader can’t put up with employees’ baloney. If someone isn’t producing, a leader has a right and an obligation to fire them.

 

Eventually I learned that servant leadership isn’t about being nice at all costs. It’s about being helpful at all costs. A leader should be as brutally honest as possible — and you can do this in a kind and loving way. Let the chips fall where they may, and remember: Honesty is helpful. When you tell someone why they’re doing a bad job, you’re transferring the responsibility. Maybe they improve. Maybe they leave. Whatever the outcome, they own it.

 

And let’s be clear. You’ll lose people this way — and that’s fine. You can’t teach a pig to sing. Some leaders think, Oh, I’m going to train the employee to become this; we’re going to develop them into that . It just doesn’t happen. People are who they are. A leader’s responsibility is not to make a person succeed. A leader’s responsibility is to create a direction for the organization and share with their team the opportunity of what they all can be. A leader provides the space to perform. After that, each employee owns their career and chooses their path.

 

So, about that longtime executive whose job had outgrown him: After two years of bad performance, I finally confronted him. We mutually agreed he should leave the company. As I matured as a leader, I had many more experiences like that — the honest conversation that leads to a departure. Employees have actually come back to thank me. People who have been fired or were asked to leave have later told me that they learned more about themselves and their capabilities during that process than at any other time in their career. And that makes me feel good. It means I succeeded in being a servant leader.

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The Ideal Team Player

by IPowerIdeas April 2, 2018

This is another fantastic book by Patrick Lencioni. If you have not guessed it yet, I truly enjoy his books and after reading each book I realize I have learned a lot as well as been inspired to continue my research and journey to be a better manager and leader.

 

In this book, The Ideal Team Player, he focusses on the individual. Whereas his book, 5 Dysfunctions of a Team, focusses on teamwork. Here is a link to my post on The 5 Dysfunctions of a Team.

 

To summarize:

5 behavioral manifestations of Teamwork:
• Trust
• Conflict (healthy)
• Commitment
• Accountability
• Results

 

If you want increase your knowledge and your set of tools, you need to read this book.

 

Think of a single sports player who thinks s/he is better than the rest of the team and this player thinks they are what makes the team win and how that thinking and attitude affects the rest of the team. Would you want to be part of that team? How hard would it be to manage that player? Or how harder would it be to lead the team? And the list of questions goes on.

 

Here is an older, but a good example of a well-known and popular player, Scottie Pippen, that highlights this issue:

 

The backdrop to the story:
• It is the 1994 Championship game between Kicks and the Bulls.
• Both teams had a team with a lot of big-named players.
• Score was 102-102.
• There was only 1.8 seconds left!
• Coach pulls team aside to the bench and calls a play designed for someone else than the “most popular player” – in this case that would be Scottie Pippen
• Everyone on the team, but one person, was excited and all in for the newly designed and chosen play.
• One player uttered negative words under his breath so only his teammates could hear
• They encouraged him to get on board with the new play, he refused
• The rest of the players were united as a TEAM
• They had faith in their coach and his decision as the coach (trusting he knew more than the players at that moment)
• This decision could have lost the championship game for them – a single play.

 

What do you think happened?!

5 Dysfunctions of a Team focuses on how a group of people must interact in order to become a cohesive team. This book focusses on an individual team member and the virtues that make him or her more likely to overcome the dysfunctions that derails teams.

 

The Ideal Team Player is all about the makeup of individual team members while The 5 Dysfunctions of a Team are about the dynamics of teams getting things done.

 

When team members improve their abilities to be Humble, Hungry, and Smart, they’ll be able to make more progress in overcoming the 5 dysfunctions on a regular basis.

 

Book Summary:

Bob is in construction management and has to figure out how to keep a company running when the owner/CEO goes out on medical leave and they have two significant projects coming up and they need to hire a lot more people and they want to hire the best employees (at all levels) to ensure the outcomes or results of both projects are successful.

 

The three executives in the fable ultimately come up with three traits they feel their team members need in order to be successful within their company and company culture: “Humble”, “Hungry”, and “Smart”.

 

These three traits they felt were critical and were to build off the “team work” concept they had learned about a year prior but let the commitment to those changes and practices lapse over time and they needed to go back and build on the foundation of teamwork they had learned and now focus more on the traits of the individuals that were going to make up their team.

 

Here are just some of the highlights – what I call “I Power Seeds” – to get you interested and thinking.

 

When you keep toxic managers or leaders around, non-toxic and great employees leave. Many times we as managers keep toxic employees on our team as it can be hard to remove them, but we also lose great employees because they do not want to be part of a team or work for someone who is toxic.

 

The executives in the book’s fable use a term “_ack_sses” and they realize that not only do they lose good employees, but these toxic managers hire more of the same kind which continues to proliferate the traits and practices they did not want within their company (nor should you). This exacerbates the poor behaviors which makes it continually harder for changes to be made as the number of toxic employees will increase.

 

I give you one example of my own. When I put together a hiring panel, I always make sure those members of the panel are thinking and looking for the same things I am in the candidates, which is that they are Hungry, Humble and Smart. I also ensure and ask if these panel members can envision themselves working with this person every day. This practice has significantly changed who we hire and how my team has been changing/improving over time.

 

The most unhappy people are the ones who don’t fit the culture, the ones who don’t belong – they are miserable as they know they don’t belong.

 

Bob put on a white board those employees with bad behaviors and wrote down adjectives about each one to find common denominators between them.

 

I would add to this exercise and look at the employees over time and ask questions such as, “Were they always like that? Did the continued and negative culture change their attitude?” I think looking at it over time provides a 3D look and recognizing this could potentially keep good team members. They will only stay if the culture was changed to a positive and cohesive one, which included – Trust, (healthy) Conflict, Commitment, Accountability, Results.

 

The management team came up with the denominators:
• Ego   (Humble) – being unpretentious
• Hard work   (Hungry)
• People   (Smart) – how to act, what to say, what not to say

 

They used a Venn Diagram and put the names of their current staff closest to the traits they felt they had or did not have (Humble, Hungry, Smart). Here is an example of a Venn Diagram, where the very center is the “ideal team player”.

Venn Diagram

What Humble, Hungry, and Smart brings is results – which is the top of The 5 Dysfunctions of a Team pyramid (inattention to results).

 

Great team players are Humble, Hungry, and Smart.

 

The executive team help an interview with each person about humble, hungry, and smart and asked them to self-assess themselves. I think this was a great idea – gave each person a little insight into themselves. How many times do we not see something until we look at it from another direction or a different perspective and you end up having an “ah-ha” moment? Great stuff!

 

Humble, Hungry, Smart – it is not theoretical or touchy-feely.

 

Patrick Lencioni calls Humble, Hungry, Smart as “3 Virtues” and humility being the most important. Humility also meaning deflated sense of self-worth – when you don’t speak up even though you have great ideas.

 

Take quote from P157, first paragraph:
“In the context of teamwork, humility is largely what it seems to be. Great team players lack excessive ego or concerns about status. They are quick to point out the contributions of others and slow to seek attention for their own. They share credit, emphasize team over self, and define success collectively rather than individually. It is no great surprise, them, that humility is the single greatest and most indispensable attribute of being a team player.”

 

Be careful not to pigeonhole people, but better understand what constitutes an ideal team player so we can recognize and develop them on our teams.

 

I share a personal story that when I was interviewing for a VP position at a large company I had gone through the barrage of interview panels and one-on-ones with key stakeholders like the CEO and CFO. But they also recognized the Humble, Hungry, Smart model and wanted to ensure I had these virtues. So one of the key members of the IT department “casually” asked me if I wanted to meet for lunch. Of course I accepted and we had a really good conversation, but was clear he was trying to get me to let my guard down and show my true self and did I truly possess the virtues of Humble, Hungry, Smart and would I fit into their company culture. Which I did, and out of 600 applicants, 300 having IT experience, I got the job.

 

Here are some interview questions I took from the book.  There are many others really good ones.

 

One note he brought to light, which I have done, is within the interview questions, ask the same question in a different manner later on. This will help you validate what they have said for important or key areas that are important to you and your department or company culture. Such as:
• How would your colleagues describe your worth ethic?
• How would your manager describe your relationship with your colleagues?

 

What are your most important accomplishments of your career?

 

What was the biggest embarrassment or biggest failure and how did you handle it?

 

What is your greatest weakness or what would you change about yourself or better yet what would your friends say you need to work on?

 

Tell me about someone who is better than you in an area that really matters to you?

 

What is the hardest project you worked on?

 

What do you like to do outside of work?

 

How would you describe your personality?

 

What kind of people annoy you the most and how do you work with them?

 

Would your former colleagues describe you as empathetic? Give an example where you demonstrated empathy to a teammate (how others feel)

 

Interviewers need to ask themselves, “could I work with this person every day?”

 

Let your reference checks reveal to you if the person would thrive in your culture.

 

Key is: the process is aimed at improved vs. punishment.

 

Have a 360 feedback program.

 

Many people do not seem to realize how their words and actions impact others.

 

Book recommended within “The Ideal Team Player” – “Good to Great” by Jim Collins

Good to Great by Jim Collins
Resources
https://www.tablegroup.com/books/ideal-team-player

 

Book Summary from Amazon
In his classic book, The Five Dysfunctions of a Team, Patrick Lencioni laid out a groundbreaking approach for tackling the perilous group behaviors that destroy teamwork. Here he turns his focus to the individual, revealing the three indispensable virtues of an ideal team player.

 

In The Ideal Team Player, Lencioni tells the story of Jeff Shanley, a leader desperate to save his uncle’s company by restoring its cultural commitment to teamwork. Jeff must crack the code on the virtues that real team players possess, and then build a culture of hiring and development around those virtues.

 

Beyond the fable, Lencioni presents a practical framework and actionable tools for identifying, hiring, and developing ideal team players. Whether you’re a leader trying to create a culture around teamwork, a staffing professional looking to hire real team players, or a team player wanting to improve yourself, this book will prove to be as useful as it is compelling.

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Humility as Leadership
Leadership

Leadership Development – Humility as Leadership

by IPowerIdeas March 29, 2018

Leadership expert Dan Rock­ well says the “secret sauce” ingredient that makes great leaders great is humility. Here are Rockwell’s suggestions for practicing humility as a leader.

 

1.  Turn outward and celebrate others.
2.  Actively seek and act on feedback.
3.  Tell people what you’re learning.
4.  Honor those who influence you.
5.  Enable others to do what you do.
6.  Focus on giving.
7.  Acknowledge frailties and weaknesses while still reaching for new heights.
8.  Listen.
9.  Build relationships.
10.  Bring compassion and empathy to challenge.
11.  Say “thank you.”
12.  Laugh at yourself.

 

“Think of humility as a prac­tice,” Rockwell says. “Sometimes you feel it. Sometimes you practice it.”

 

Really good suggestions, Hard to add to things that work. Being humble not only means not being conceited and expressing it, but it also means you do not sell yourself short on your own skills and experience. As leader you need to express your thoughts and ideas, that is also being humble.

 

I do not like being the focus of attention nor a lot of fanfare on myself. Partly because I am humble and partly because I am successful because I surround myself with productive and dedicated team members and when I am successful, we are all successful.

 

When I won an award for Administrator of the Year – Technology Leader I was not anxious about being in front of a lot of people and giving a speech. But I was truly grateful and humbled that someone recommended me and I was selected. It is also because I am an introvert.

 

And in my other posts on being an introvert and reading people as well as being humble, hungry, and smart I go into more detail about them – please read the post as they are insightful.

 

 

Adapted from “Secret Sauce Sunday: One Secret from Five World Class Leaders”
by Dan Rockwell. Leadership Freak Blog. December 2017. http://leadershipfreak blog. (Creative Commons BY 3.0 License. http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0.)

 

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The Truth About Employee Engagement

by IPowerIdeas March 14, 2018

The Truth About Employee Engagement: A Fable About Addressing the Three Root Causes of Job Misery

 

This is another great book from Patrick Lencioni. It follows the framework of many of this other books of a fable with the key concepts incorporated into the fable.

 

I really enjoyed the book and had a hard time putting it down. I think I read it over a weekend and took pages of notes and even infused many of the concepts into a staff meeting.

 

Powerful concepts. I know you will enjoy reading it and learning many key concepts. I encourage you to use them in your management or leadership practices.

 

Here are my learning nuggets or seeds to get you started in your own further research, evaluation, analysis, and self-reflection.

 

Engagement is key. Period.

 

Patrick Lencioni once again provides an engaging (pardon the pun), easy to understand, and interesting fable.

 

He brings up the point that if someone is unhappy or feels they are in miserable job, they take it home and their feelings spread to family, friends, co-workers, etc. As a manager, this can be detrimental to my future hiring as potential candidates will research and hear about how unhappy they are and how the culture is non-engaging and why would they want to apply. Keeping an employee engaged could do just the opposite if they are happy and spread that excitement about their job, the department, and the company. Potentially candidates would be enthusiastic to apply, which broadens the net to reach and attract new employees.

 

Here are the three root causes that make a job miserable:

Anonymity
•  All people need to feel wanted
•  Need to feel understood and appreciated
•  Need to feel they are part of something

 

Irrelevance
•  Everyone needs to know their job matters – that it means something
•  They need to find fulfillment in their jobs, their work, who they serve and how it impacts them

 

Immeasurement
•  Employees need to be able to gauge their progress and level of contribution
•  In order to improve, continuous improvement, you must be able to measure it
•  Need something tangible

job misery

Employees who are engaged take pride and ownership in their work. If you want high productivity with a degree of quality, keep employees engaged.

 

Employees who are engaged stay with the job, retention, which saves the money company. And if they are happy they tell their friends so then recruiting, hiring, and termination will all reduce time and costs.

 

Engaged employees will perpetuate this culture into their colleagues which then enhances the culture, increases productivity and reducing costs across multi-functional teams.

 

Too much emphasis on maximizing compensation.

 

Think about how many athletes or actors/actresses you can recall that are paid very well and who are unhappy (like Heath Ledger or Robin Williams who both committed suicide). It is because they feel all or one of these things:
• Anonymity
   • Irrelevance
   • Immeasurement

You should ask the question: “What is making you even consider leaving in the first place?”

 

This reminds me of when I first started with an organization and within the first couple of weeks I had an employee who had been there more than 5 years resign. So I asked Nicholas (not his real name) why he was leaving and he said he was moving to Idaho to start a farm. I went a little deeper and asked a similar question as above and got the real answer – he was not being engaged. But by the time I came on board it was too late. From that moment on, things changed in the department. Knowledge is key as now I knew past culture and what I needed to do to change the culture and keep employees engaged and happy.

 

Empathy and curiosity. These are set of emotions that are key ingredients of employee engagement that significantly help with showing someone that you really care. This is tried and true. I know I try every day to show empathy and curiosity into the business, and where appropriate, personal lives of my staff. It helps us feel more connected which translates into them wanting to be better employees.

 

Patrick Lencioni supports and says that training is ok and can be good, but often the skills and knowledge get forgotten. Therefore, you need constant and consistent reminders and exercises to reinforce what has been learned.

 

He also says in the book that ultimately eliminating these things will make the biggest, longest, and most far-reaching impacts – remove and eliminate:
•  Anonymity
•  Irrelevance
•  Immeasurement

 

Anonymity
Take a personal interest in your employees. This quote is so impactful:

“People want to be managed as people, not as mere workers.”

 

Humans are made to server others. We all need to help and serve others. If we don’t, then we begin to die emotionally.

 

Look at In-And-Out Burgers or Chick-fil-A – their employees are young kids and they are all happy, energetic, and it is infectious. That stems from a culture of caring of good management. Their management helps their employees to know how their work impacts others (smiles, fast and good orders fulfilled, etc.).

 

Great employees don’t want their success to be dependent on the subjective views or opinions of another human being. They want their success to be measureable. Where they can measure their own progress or contribution. That is why sales people love their jobs – they can measure their own success.

 

Offer and give incentives, but they only can receive it as an “all or nothing” and only when team goals were achieved and team success was reached.

 

Some great quotes from the book:

“If you can’t measure something, you can’t improve it”

“It’s not what you are doing but how you are doing it”

 

If you can’t measure it, any job gets old and frustrating and/or boring.

 

People who are not good at their jobs don’t like to be measured because they would be held accountable. Those who are good at their jobs eat it up as it is like a reward, constant reward.

 

How does your work impact others’ lives, make a difference in someone’s life?

 

Manager needs to show them how their employee’s jobs matter or make a difference. Meaningful difference in the lives of others.

1.  Lack of Measurement
2.  Lack of Relevance
3.  Anonymity

 

How they feel at work carries over to family and friends.

 

Ask, What is a good job, what makes a job good?

 

Here are some documents from The Table Group.  Check out their site for more details and additional resources.

 

Overcoming-Job-Misery

The Truth About Employee Engagement

 

 

 

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